I need some help patching up my relationship with my father...?

I am 14 years old. On Monday, my dad had to wake me up, my dad doesn't like having to wake me up for school because i have to get up so early, he doesn't see why i can't just use my alarm clock. I am a very heavy sleeper and so even with my alarm clock blasting I don't hear it. He got really mad at me and said that I couldn't have a sleepover on Thursday. I proceeded to say "Why, I have breakfast, and I am making the bus on time" He says "Because I had to wake you up!" I said, "I'm making the bus on time, it's fine, chill" My dad then stomped towards me and when he does that he is coming to beat my ***. My dad's dad used to discipline him that way whenever my dad "mouthed off". I did not mouth off towards him when he was yelling at me though. I had a calm, but firm voice. When he started stomping towards me, I started sprinting, he chased me around the house 5 times I think, and I was screaming. I made a run for the door. My mom came out and stalled my dad for probably 5 seconds and he pushed her away. I saw my dad in the corner of my eye about 5 feet away from me. I went into a protective huddling position on the driveway. I had dropped my purse and I still had my backpack on my back. He grabbed the top strap/handle of my backpack and drug me across the driveway about 10 feet. He spanked me 3 times and tried to kick me. My mom finally got out and stopped him from further injuring me. My mom asked if I was okay, I was crying but said "I'm okay, but he just drug me across the driveway" My dad who had walked way but was not yet inside, said "I didn't do **** to you" I said "Bullshit you didn't". I ran to the bus stop. I haven't said more then ten words to my father since Monday and he is mad at my mom and hasn't talked to her either because he feels that she interfered with him disciplining me the right way. My dad's birthday is on Easter and I want everything to be better by then but at this point I don't think he even deserves the right to be sung to. I just want him to apologize and acknowledge that what he did was wrong. We used to be best friends. I just want it to be like that again. Please help me patch up my friendship.